Published June 20, 2018 by Jazen

Maintaining Momentum

Momentum!  This can make the difference between having sex or not on a date. Guys often fail to score on dates, because they run out of time. They fail to make any moves or were too slow in making moves, she leaves, and the chance is gone forever. Many simply don't understand the importance of going for it when they had the chance. Worse, some women will sneakily use the clock against their dates or cut time short.  Many don't know or realize that you can go from meeting her to almost or sex, in 3 to 4 hours. Because in Japan, that might be all the time on the date she is going to give you to establish chemistry and a connect.  

If you fail to convert the date to an intimate relationship, you might lose the chance at a next time or must start again from almost scratch, as if the last date didn't happen.  Whatever emotional feelings she had on that date, can be lost as time moves on. The more delay between dates, the worse it gets. She might start to forget you or becomes preoccupied by other things. This is especially a problem in Japan, where Japanese women are famous for delaying or postponing dates. Instead of the date being 3 days later, it's next week, 3 weeks later, next month, or never.  Even if there is a 2nd or 3rd date, it's as much a GAMBLE, as on the first. There is no telling for sure which way it will go.  Make each chance count, because there might NOT be a next time.  She will then become only a dream or fantasy of what could have been, and not a girlfriend or love of your life. 
Which is why we show guys how to maintain momentum in the interaction and maximize their chances.  

E-book- Dating Japanese Women Secrets 
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Published June 17, 2018 by Jazen

Who Has Better Game?

Many men don't realize that the game women are playing is both indirect and direct seduction.  And whether consciously or subconsciously, she can be very good at her version of the Game. She can have been approached by thousands of boys and men since a child to becoming an adult. As a grown woman, she can very much be a master of the feminine arts. That short dress, push up bra, hair style, makeup to hide flaws, panties to make her butt look rounder... The smile, head tilt, and her behavior can all be highly calibrated to get her what she wants. Temptation and seduction. But for men, we must play the Game differently. We have to seduce and tempt women much more mentally, than just physically. In fact, a man's physical appearance can be intimidating to various women or not get him the kind of reactions from them that he thinks it should or wishes. It's a different side of the coin. Men have to learn the tools of mental seduction, in our version of the Game.  Ways of subtle temptation and higher understanding of the situation, that levels the playing field between the sexes, and gives parity in options that many women have.

Curious about Japanese women and Japan?  
Learn the secrets from the e-book- Dating Japanese Women Secrets 
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